Should I Break Up W/ Him?

Don't break up during the holidays. It's so hard to be alone during the holidays and to lose someone at this time of year is tough. Talk to him and tell him that you are unhappy with his appearance and that you feel he has stopped caring about his looks because he has you. Tell him to clean up or you are going to rethink the relationship. Give him an opportunity to dress better. You both go through his closet and get rid of the battered clothes. Organize his clothes as to what goes with what and tell him to were decent looking outfits when he is with you. Tell him he can slob around when he is alone. Tell him to look around and see that other guys take care of their appearance and that shows respect for their girlfriends. And if he doesn't clean up his act then break up in January. It's not that far off.